Stop letting a man consume you. He didn't call? Go to sleep. He didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. He left you on read? Delete the conversation. He didn't make an effort? Walk away from him. Never let your happiness be held hostage by a man.
You have to let people love you. You have to let people get to know you. You have to let people help you. Being so completely selfless that you try to erase yourself off the face of the planet and never ask for anything and reject everybody's offers of support makes you very hard to love! Unfortunately. Emptying yourself out of everything that makes you, you is not actually what your loved ones want from you, generally. They want to make you happy! They will be so so sad if you don't give them the chance. It's not all selfish. I promise.
— winged-thinged
l didn't fall for you Because i needed a Relationship. I feel for you because
"For the first time in Forever, i felt at peace and You made me feel loved You didn't judge the true Me."
never put me in a situation
where i have to show you how heartless i can be. i'm a soft person, i'm kind, i care too much, and i forgive even when it hurts. i give second chances because i believe people can do better, but even someone like me has limits. if you keep hurting me, if you keep disrespecting me, something in me will change. i will stop caring, i will stop trying, and i will not beg for your attention or explain how much it hurts. i will just walk away, and when i do, you will realize you lost someone who truly cared. so do not take my kindness for granted, because once i am done, there is no going back.
Let's be honest: you can't "turn off" a man who is truly interested in you, I mean you could literally throw a chair at him and he'd be like: "Damn, she's mine, she's just not in the mood today."
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Please stop sending men long texts after they hurt you. They don't care, and nothing you say will make them feel guilty. Take your dignity back and leave.
A therapist, once said: “You loved him because love is in you. You had fun because you are fun. You felt happy because you are a happy person. You gave your all because that is who you are. You have a really beautiful way of loving, and you are going to be okay.”
Don’t know who need to hear that ✨
My grandma once told me:
“Fall in love with someone you can talk to for hours, because beauty changes, bodies get tired, but a good conversation can carry a whole life.”
Watching a man correct his actions after you express something you don’t like? That speaks volumes. A man who truly wants you and isn’t willing to lose you…listens when you communicate your feelings. He doesn’t dismiss them…he adjusts.