@Flerbergerber I believe it is! You and I both know that a kid who practices that will not simply be able to stop when they grow up.
And I’m not even talking about in a “religious” sense.
If you don’t discipline yourself growing up, you won’t turn 20 and suddenly become mature!
@Flerbergerber There is a reason there is conviction with it. And your intimacy with your lover will always suffer if there is another way than her for you to find pleasure!
It is absolutely a weakness!
@Flerbergerber Because we were meant to own up to our shortcomings and weaknesses, and overcome them. Not blame God for them!
Praying for you every day Brother!