It is very stupid to say marriage benefits men more than women.
It is equally absurd to say marriage benefits women more than men.
Social media has turned marriage into another useless gender competition.
Marriage is supposed to benefit TWO people.
Legal and moral way to reduce your bills.
Legal and moral way to satisfy each other sexually without sleeping around.
A medical way to reduce the risks that come with multiple sexual partners.
Cheap and easiest way of having children.
A good method of building a family.
A proper way to reduce your burdens and share responsibilities.
You have the ability to combine resources and build wealth.
You have companionship and someone to face life with.
But somehow, people now calculate every sacrifice.
Cooking for a man is slavery, but if the man cooks it, it’s love.
“A man paying most of the bills makes his wife a liability, but when he loses his job and his wife takes up the role, it’s loyalty .”
Everybody is keeping score.
The funniest part?
Some women want traditional husbands while calling traditional female roles oppression.
Some men want traditional wives while refusing to carry traditional male responsibilities.
Both are hypocrites.
Marriage is not supposed to be one person sacrificing while the other person enjoys.
Your husband should benefit from marrying you.
Your wife should benefit from marrying you.
If your spouse’s life did not become better because you entered it, what exactly are you doing there?
And if your partner contributes absolutely nothing to your life, you haven’t discovered that marriage benefits one gender more.
You simply married badly.
Stop using your bad choice of partner to de-market marriage.
We are taught not to burn bridges because we might need people later. But I pray I never have to depend on anyone who has hurt or humiliated me. May God bless me with abundance so I never have to be in that position.
@talk2veee No let anyone pressure you online o
Rock your neat all back with joy,
Some of the people you are feeling oppressed over their lifestyle, some of dem de borrow/rent wig, bag, shoe and cloth o.
I graduated college at 22. Married at 23. Master’s degree at 24. 1st child born at 25. Started law school at 26. 2nd child born at 28. Graduated law school at 29, 3rd child born at 30. 4th child born at 35. “Young lady,” don’t listen to this man. There’s nothing we can’t do.
God really did a thing with sleep.
I will always look forward to sleeping; both for the temporal escape it affords me, and the refreshing it does to me.
And no matter how much I sleep, there will still be space for more.
Sleep as a phenomenon? 100/100
The most powerful and influential women are women who stand and act in their femininity. The weakest, clueless and most ineffective ones are the ones who fight to prove they can do what a man can do and demand for a non-existent equal rights with men.
Only very few of them realise that the species called Woman is the most powerful. Trying to be a man or level up with them, is a massive downgrade of their spirituality and a disgrace to their original species.
I have no desire to be a man. You’re expected to work hard, be successful, provide for your family, always stay strong, and never show weakness. Plus, you must be romantic, protective, ready to fight when needed, and always have money.
And yes, a man should ask you out properly.
Nah not a fancy restaurant thing, no it's not using chocolate drip on a plate.
It's him opening his mouth & telling you to be his woman, highlight your expectations & your non-negotiables.
Please help save yourself from twitter drama.
Live within your means! Track your expenses, avoid unnecessary debt, and save for what matters.
A little discipline goes a long way in achieving financial peace.
Red flags don’t turn green!!!!
Be selfish with your body.
Pray.
Eat good food.
Dress nice.
Smell nice.
Be contented.
Put yourself first.
Have your own money.
🫂🫂💙.
Just as someone is saying I can't do my masters abroad if I wanted to marry them, another will be helping map out scholarship applications and guiding me to save some dollars for tuition if scholarships don't work out.
May we not marry the weapon fashioned against us. 🙏