Don't play roulette with your life. Your time is more precious than gold. Some guys waste months of their life on an ungrateful selfish woman - who ends up trading up. Invest in women who are "FUCK YES" towards you; don't invest in women who are lukewarm.
Date in private. Love in private. Be happy in private. Live in private. Make money in private. Take your losses in private. Rebuild yourself in private.