christina myers

[Lincoln @flabbytofit99]

Recently at lunch, a guy asked if my wife and I were dating

"No, we're married."

"How long?"

"16 years."

His jaw dropped. "Seriously? You guys don't act married."

And there it is.

The unspoken truth about modern marriage: we've accepted that "married" means dead inside.

No affection. No fun. Just two exhausted people managing chaos together.

But here's what he actually saw:

• My arm around her waist in line • Us laughing about something stupid • Actually looking at each other instead of our phones • Choosing to spend lunch TOGETHER instead of "getting a break"

This isn't luck. It's not "good genetics" or "you just found the right one."

It's intentional.

What we do that most couples don't:

- Regular dates (non-negotiable) Even if it's just a lunch during the workday. Time together without kids talking over us.

- Physical affection in public. Hold hands. Hug. Kiss. Don't save intimacy for the bedroom—it builds connection everywhere.

- Talk about US, not just logistics. We have conversations that aren't about bills, schedules, or what the kids need.

- I still flirt with my wife Compliment her. Make her laugh. Tease her. Don't treat her like a business partner.

- Protect marriage time from kid time. Our kids are important. Our marriage is THE FOUNDATION. If it crumbles, so does everything else.

Here's the hard truth:

Your marriage isn't dying because you're "too busy."

It's dying because you stopped prioritizing it.

Every time you choose Netflix over conversation. Every time you let a month pass without a real date. Every time you treat your wife like a roommate instead of your partner.

You're choosing slow death over intentional life.

16 years in, my wife and I still get mistaken for a dating couple.

Not because we're special.

Because we refuse to let "married" mean "done trying."

When's the last time you actually DATED your wife?

[ɴ.🫧 @luvblessingz]

Y'all buying food to eat it?

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

hearing a man say “i was going to” is such a turn off bc

1. you didn’t
2. you’re lying
3. and now i’m bored

[christina myers @Christinaluciaa]

@crumbl @crumbl does it come warm?

[ger🌭 @gerawaycar]

If you need help choosing who to cheer for during the Super Bowl just remember one team WILL be going to the White House and one won’t because they declined last time that man was in office soooo go birds baby

[Jenni @hashjenni]

I said I hate men not my man

[real life wednesday. @_parrisf]

the question “how is work” really pisses me off😭. work is work bro, idk what else you want me to say

[Jenni @hashjenni]

Packing lunch for my kids & husband in the morning and going to pilates after

[Benji Newman @acebenji]

Stop stressing. You have GOD.

[ANNIE DREA @AnnieDrea_]

“Use my card” is my favourite thing to hear btw

[Chris @iamchriscorooo]

I miss skipping school. Calling out of work is too serious

[Jenni @hashjenni]

Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going

[Chris @iamchriscorooo]

I cannot believe we the new adults fr…I still drink capri suns

[☔ @Whotfismick]

this is literally the greatest way to end a convo

[I M A N I @prettygirll4L]

Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.

[Tana Mongeau @tanamongeau]

has anyone listened to cancelled from jail just wondering

[IG: STORMNYX @stormnyx_]

If someone wants to be with you, nothing will stop them from doing so. Love doesn't create excuses.