DURING JOB INTERVIEW:
"WHY ARE YOU LEAVING YOUR CURRENT ROLE?"
MOST CANDIDATES SAY: "I AM LOOKING FOR MORE GROWTH OPPORTUNITIES AND A BETTER COMPANY CULTURE."
THE WINNING ANSWER:
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
I really pray everyone finds the right circle of friends & the right partner. Life is already hard, friendships & relationship should be the least of our worries.
Rihanna sharing a quote that said โthe moment you start hiding your emotions to avoid arguments, you begin losing the bond that once made you feel like homeโ and the shit is real asf.
gusto ko yung nakahiga na si aiah sa stage habang nanonood kay staks then si sheena ginawang unan ate aiah niya tas si maloi humiga na rin kay shee๐ i love whateverโs wrong with them๐๐ซถ๐ป
i don't really remember this much class suspensions when i was a student... maybe i am just too stressed to remember or maybe we're just living in an increasingly degrading nation and world.
Tom Holland sharing a quote that said โif you have a problem with me, text me, and if you donโt have my number, you donโt know me well enough to have a problem with meโ really stuck with me
Best career advice that I can give: Don't ever attach yourself to a person, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Attach yourself to a mission, a calling, a purpose ONLY. That's how you keep your power & your peace. It's worked pretty well for me thus far.
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."
The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, and people don't give it away lightly.