This really touched me.
I have gotten her account number.
She owes a total of N576,500.
But please read more from her. I appeal to you to come to her aid 🙏.
Sir, I read most of the comments. I thought you would not even open my message because my account is not verified, but I still decided to write the messages last night while I was crying. After I sent the message, I felt relieved, even though I doubted you would read it.
Most people commented that my mom was blinded by love, that's why they went ahead and got married even though they know their genotype.
The thing is that my mom didn't go to school and she has no idea of what it means but my dad is an educated person.
My aunt, who is my mom's elder sister, asked him what his genotype was, but he lied, saying that he had checked it and that it was okay. My aunt believed him because he was working in a pharmacy and was also a lab technician at the time, so she didn't ask further.
It was after I was born that my mom found out. I was crying all day in pain when a crisis arose, and I was taken to the hospital. That's when the doctor told my mom that I am SS. She didn't understand what he was saying because she had no knowledge about it.
The doctor explained everything to her, and she initially decided to end the marriage. However, my dad told her that, together with the doctor, they convinced her that the remaining children she would give birth to would not have the condition. She accepted because she had no knowledge of how it works.
The second and third born are SS, which makes us three SS and 4 As. We are seven children all together my mom suffered till tomorrow, my dad decided not to care for her and he maltreated her and turned her into a maid.
Me and my siblings were abused by our dad in the name of discipline, he did all things to get rid of us. He beat us every minute, we can't be happy at home if he was around, any little mistakes we did he will beat us.
Whenever any of us was sick, we use to hide because he will beat our mom just because he doesn't want to spend money for hospital bills. We hide in pains except if it's out of control that's when he will find out the one of us was sick.
Though now I am the only one remaining out of the SS, two have passed away in the space of five months. My junior brother died because he was not treated on time, as our dad refused to come home.
My mom called him and told him that this boy's situation is getting worse. She asked him to tell her where his file is so she could take him to the hospital. But he replied, 'If you are ready to take him to the hospital, you don't need to look for the file. The child is yours. If he survives, he survives for you, not me.'
My mom had no choice. She was looking for the file to make things easier, so she would not need to buy the file before they treat him. Buying it takes a lot of time.
She took him to the hospital like that, he was put on emergency while she was running to buy medication they wrote for her,
On getting back, my brother gave up.
The saddest part that morning on the day he died, he was thrown out of the house by my dad, he beat him and pushed him outside to go and lay down that he shouldn't sleep on the couch not knowing that's the last time he would see the boy.
My brother died on April 16 2024 and my sister September 19 2024. Since then, my dad gave up on me. He told me I will soon go, and I should stop wasting my time praying. Whether I pray or not, I will still go.
If I am not asking my dad for money, I will have peace. That's why I stopped and am working just to survive. Please, my mom did nothing wrong; she is also a victim and she tried her best.
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If you want to earn well (especially to build a career path) as a 9-5, target to work in these companies:
1. MOCs or Oil servicing firms
2. The Big 4s & consulting
3. The Banks
4. Tech giants
5. International NGOs
6. Asset management/Investment
As long as you're a FTE.
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Some of you, the only time that you receive a call from your siblings or relatives, is when they want to ask you for financial help.
They don't just randomly call you, to say that they want to check on your wellbeing.
I will excuse your parents or guardians in this thread.
They're your parents, and you're supposed to be the one calling them, far more than they should be calling you.
As a young man or woman in a relationship.
This is something alot of you may be taking for granted, or have not paid close attention to.
It's not good to be emotionally lonely, when you're building your life or career.
You need that one person that you'd call to speak to, at least once a day or in few days.
Someone you can trust a great deal, & someone that is building with you.
Someone that you'd share your good news with, when you pass that professional exam, or you achieve a major task in your life.
Typically, this period is between the ages of 26 to 30.
I need every young legitimate hardworking man or woman to think critically about this.
Yesterday, I said that most married women who are happy in their marriage, are the ones that met their husbands when they had nothing significant to their name.
And it's true for the most part.
A lot of things can happen in marriage that, if your spouse is not someone that you started life with, & knew him or her to a very large extent, you'd not have patience, or you'd not be so kind to him or her.
Learn not to ruin your young relationship with greed, unnecessary pride or deceits.
Learn that the young girl that you're dating today, & you think she's not beautiful or classy enough for you, is also growing.
And that she will not be like that forever.
Diamonds are not shinny when they're first discovered.
As a young man living alone & working hard, you need a girlfriend.
She's mostly going to be the only one that would be buzzing your phones everyday, & waking you up with loving messages.
You also need someone that can quickly help you reach out to your family, should anything happen to you.
If you keep staying alone, & saying that you don't need a girlfriend because you're "chasing the bag", you'll not understand what it means to have a wife as soon as possible.
And before you know it, you're in your 30s, & now too busy to even date properly.
You'll find yourself doing what you should have done long ago.
And marriage will start to scare you, because almost every lady that you'd meet will want to leech on you, & you may not even be able to trust them.
For you young ladies, my honest prayer for you is that when you genuinely want to commit to a man, may God not bring a deceitful and greedy man your way.
Because some men do not even know what they want.
Just vibes and inshallah with coins in their pockets.
Thinking that they have arrived.
Once you sense that he is not leading you right, lies unprovoked, a bet addict, a fraudster & doesn't speak like someone who wants to marry a wife early, please stop wasting your time with him.
Leave his stupid life alone, & look for responsible men elsewhere.
Let oloshos deal with him.
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