The FN Whisperer

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[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

Unpopular opinion:
Cheating is not a result of unhappiness.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

Men don’t truly love anyone but themselves. This is your first mistake believing men are capable of love outside of their own self. They only marry / or commit to a woman who is feeding all their needs at that time. The moment she no longer does that he will quickly replace her whether it’s leaving or just pathologically cheating. Either way, his needs will be met. And love has NOTHING to do with that.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@Likah_Marie Advice to pass to your mammy. Good luck!

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@maynkydvv Not really. That was the past. Heal. You’ll be indifferent.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@societyhatestee Distance means you need to go bc something is distracting you and disturbing your central nervous system. Don’t start getting used to this.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@yanaaszn_ You should be more disappointed in self for believing so heavily in anyone outside of yourself.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@Indemosyd Realizing that men are incapable of love and only settle where their needs are being met at the time.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@diiorr05 And even then you should never shut up.

Men loves bihs.. trust me!

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@ML_Philosophy It’s how their central nervous system regulates. Even if they leave and find peace, it’s way too awkward. They’ll likely be mean to the new girl just to get bc to the toxic relationship they are used to.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@Aduradara61049 Exactly.
One guy said, “well you never told me what you needed….”
That’s all I needed to hear!

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@ThinkofAva Bc it’s the only way their central nervous system regulates. From the outside looking in, you’re confused. But to her, it feels good bc that’s what she’s used to.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@Jameca2011 He should always feel that his spot can be taken at any moment, sis. He’s NOT your husband.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@_iamhershayyy You’re single bc you’re the only one in love.

Stop!

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

Never date just one, sis.

Therefore you choose you and to be there for you every time! You wouldn’t have the energy to be there for ALL of them the way you had the energy to pour into one that wasn’t worth it.

Until someone presents a ring AND executes a wedding, DO NOT pour anything but piss into their half full glass. 🥴😘💅

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@omgsidewalks Let’s discuss this in a session. We need to deal with this now.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

That’s called situational sadness, which looks similar to depression. Book a session with me and we can uncover why. Your ppl meter has burnt out but we need to figure out what your part in those failed attempts were so we’re can address them going forward as you navigate dating and friendships z

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@_Teddysucks Umm lol accountability looks and sounds good until someone has to show some.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

Wrong let me fix it

Once a dude starts living to only attract women, especially the ones he knows is blatantly using him, he loses himself.
Second, he cheats to regulate his nervous system bc he’s used to chaos and doesn’t know what peace looks like.
Finally, He never loses any woman because after being played, he will finally choose himself and peace over them.

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

@utshireletso lol love of your life. Where do yall get this fairy tale shit from? Disney?

[The FN Whisperer @ChynaTease]

Um dating is competition. The rules don’t exist. Just bc you lack the confidence necessary to sustain a man’s attention doesn’t mean I’m trying to embarrass you. Most likely, you’ve already embarrassed yourself trying to date for love when everyone can see he doesn’t really like you.