@cuckmtg I don't think that's a bad rhyme or reason to screen partners. Like, whatever the motivation behind it, it's important to feel like you're not the only person who's reliable. And to just feel like you're allowed to take a break from the stress of life.
@cuckmtg Yeah, it's really hard. You're taking care of 3 cats, a home, yourself, and juggling a lot of other emotions on top of it. Plus, you keep needing surgeries and those are *not* cheap in the slightest.
@cuckmtg I can afford 1.5 round trips plus the hotel for magiccon weekend, It's just that last little bit. That's literally the only thing I'm worried about cause bills suck ass. But I can figure out my PTO easily enough.
@cuckmtg If it reaches a point where you need to and you're ok with going halvsies on a plane ticket with me, I will fly out to Chicago and watch your cats for however long.
Everytime transwomen are banned from women's sports the conversation is, "well, the men's league is really an open league anyway." Without acknowledging that the "open" league was created to maintain men's egos and discriminate against women. Not to "give women a chance."