The WORST feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his BEHAVIOR that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on her.
Nobody gets angrier than a man who's hiding something.
If you ask him a simple question and he gets mad it's not because you accused him, it's because you caught him. A man with something to hide will always turn your question into a fight.
A man with nothing to hide won't mind being asked.
Iโm both masculine and feminine energy. Iโll dominate if youโre weak, but Iโll melt for someone strong enough to dominate me and let my feminine side shine.
Ignoring your partner when they're hurting isn't space. It's abandonment. It teaches them they're alone, and that their emotions don't matter.
Real space is saying โI need a minute to process so I can show up better for you.โ Abandonment is going silent and letting them sit in their pain wondering if you even care. Love doesn๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝt vanish when things get hard. It leans in. When you shut down,
youโre telling them their feelings are a burden, and that being vulnerable with you is unsafe. People donโt forget that lesson. They stop reaching out. They stop trusting you with the parts of them that hurt. And one day youโll wonder why they feel distant, not realizing you taught them distance was the only safe option.
If your partner says heโs too busy to text you, stop making excuses for him.
People with packed schedules still reply to the people they truly value. It literally takes 10 seconds to text.
The truth is simple: his priorities changed, and youโre feeling it, just not accepting it.
A good man will change if he knows he's hurting you.
Because if he actually cares, It hurts him to see you hurt. But a toxic man, he won't change. He'll say, "That's just how I am.โ And then blame you for staying.
So be careful, a man who loves you will try to be better, a man who doesn't will make you feel like it's your fault.