How to treat your husband like the king that he is.
1) when he's leaving for work, you make sure he's well dressed, and you kiss his forehead saying...
"My darling husband, you'll go and come back in safe hands. I wish you a blessed day".
2) while he's having his bath, you
I just returned from a one week trip to Nigeria travelling by road doing Lagos - Sagamu - Abeokuta - Ibadan - Sagamu - Lagos - Ibadan - Osogbo - Erin Osun - Ibadan - Sagamu - Lagos, and I need to get this off my chest.
A slightly long thread.
Please read a conversation between a man and his father that has been married for 47 years.
Note the points his father gave, & note points 6, 11 and 12 as well.
Do they ring a bell?
Also, on his 50/50 response, does it remind you of a submissive wife leading from behind?👇
Key red flags in a man.
He:
1) is >35 & no defined career path/business
2) is >30 & still living with his parents
3) is addicted to betting
4) is fraudulent
5) can't take key decisions without his mom
6) is too religious
7) can't knack well
8) doesn't respect his father
End.
Lessons all men must take from today's event on Mr. Anozie and his estranged wife.
1) women don't love men.
2) always stay 5 steps ahead of your wife.
3) never let a woman set you up for failure.
4) check your income & decide on the number of kids you need
5) if you marry
A married man must show reverence to his wife when it comes to her territory.
He should never allow his siblings or parents come before his wife.
His wife's decision, feelings & opinions must be taken into consideration before he acts.
If you're not doing this as a man, then
If pride and ego are kept aside, I believe marriages will blossom.
It's that pride/ego that creates a divide because the two tend to be selfish.
Try to do more giving and be less concerned with taking.
Learn from trying and failing.
Goodnight.
It's anti-feminine to tell women that they MUST be financially independent before they get married.
But teaching women to be self sufficient, less greedy & more patient is feminine.
Women who encourage this have ulterior motives.
Major of it, is that they can disrespect men
A) "I told you that I want money to buy something and you didn't give me"
B) "My honey, please whenever you're able to afford it, don't forget the money I pleaded for. I'm always praying for God to bless you"
As a man, which of these would you love to hear?
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