Lowkey this is one of the reasons the GOAT debate will never end.
Messi just reached a final and your first thought is Ronaldo, how debate wan take end?😂
Facts only!
It’s also how they want to be “friends only” with top dudes they can benefit from.. and when those ones try having sex, it becomes “Men just can’t be friends without wanting to get in your pants”
Half the time you want to be friends knowing it’d benefit you more
That boy in your department also wanted to be friends, that colleague you share desk with at work also wants to be your friend, the guy that stays down your street that takes bus to work same way you do also wants to be your friend too
But naaaah.. Na owner of Onyx Bar for Lekki you wan do ‘friendship’ with🤡
You mistakenly meet the owner of that club or top manager at a bank and you suddenly cherish ‘male friendships’
Guys choke for your DM online but you’ll rather be ‘friends’ with a Sir Dickson/Cross/Morris Monye
What happened to Micheal_01384629 that has been in your DM wanting to be friends ?
Ole ofo!
I SEE GOD IN THE EXCELLENCE OF MEN!!!💪🏾💯
Yesterday, I made a post about the security man in my office plaza and how we raised money for him on his birthday. Instead of using the money to repair his phone that had fallen into water, he spent it all taking care of his family’s needs.
Immediately after the tweet blew up, one of my mutuals sent me a DM asking how much it would cost to fix Baba’s phone. I told him I would find out.
When I got to work today, I asked Baba to give me the phone so I could get it repaired. He refused at first, saying I had already done enough for him and that he didn’t want to be a burden. In his words
“I no carry you come Lagos. No dey spend all your money like that. You go pay house rent and chop food.”🥹
I told him my brother wanted to repair it for free. After a lot of convincing, he finally handed over the phone.
I took it to a phone engineer, and after inspecting it, he called me to explain everything that needed to be replaced. I told him to fix all of it.
Right now, the phone is with me, fully repaired. Every damaged part has been replaced. My mutual paid the entire bill and even sent extra money.
I honestly can’t wait to see Baba’s face tomorrow when I hand it back to him. I just can’t wait.
1. Read every day. Even 20 to 30 minutes a day compounds into dozens of books a year. Read across subjects such as psychology, history, philosophy, economics, biographies, and literature. I have recommended some books for us to read throughout the year. The list is pinned to my profile.
2. Learn to communicate well. Improve your writing, speaking, and listening. The ability to express ideas clearly is valuable in every area of life.
3. Become emotionally resilient. Accept criticism without taking it personally, learn from failures, and don't let temporary setbacks define you.
4. Cultivate curiosity. Ask questions, challenge your assumptions, and remain open to changing your mind when presented with better evidence.
5. Be reliable. Keep your promises, arrive on time, and follow through. Reliability builds trust faster than charisma.
6. Develop discipline. Do what needs to be done even when you don't feel like it. Motivation comes and goes. Discipline is what produces results.
7. Protect your time. Reduce mindless scrolling, avoid unnecessary arguments, and say no to commitments that don't align with your priorities.
8. Build meaningful relationships. Surround yourself with people who challenge you to grow.
9. Manage your finances. Spend less than you earn, build an emergency fund, invest consistently, and avoid unnecessary debt.
10. Take care of your health. Lift weights, do some cardio, sleep at least 7 to 9 hours, stay hydrated, and eat a balanced diet. A healthy body supports a sharper mind.
11. Reflect regularly. Journal, review your week, identify what worked, what didn't, and what you'll do differently.
Do have a great week ahead 👍
Not too many things piss me off more than the “All Men want is respect” narrative
Yo.. I want love, money, care, baby boy treatment, accountability, reciprocity… I want EVERYTHING she wants TOO.
Shey you wan disrespect me before ni ?
How you wan take do am ?
I hope you can now understand why I've been saying a woman is first a woman before anything else.
Rich or Poor. Their propensities are distinctively perculiar.
Any other thing is internet fanfiction.
i have a theory that we live in a matrix.
from childhood clips to global stadiums, certain players are filmed, protected and promoted as if the script was written before they could speak.
the camera follows them, the spotlight isolates them
it’s not random at all that we’ve seen ronaldo sweeping the streets before stardom;
neymar being interviewed as a child;
messi bathing yamal;
this pattern suggests something deeper than coincidence
the cameras do not find them by accident. the system identifies them early… their childhood moments are archived why??? it is prophecy in boots. and maybe, just maybe, the stars were never random. they were selected by the system long before the world started watching
Don’t know if this is weird, but…
Showing empathy to me doesn’t make me feel good.. If anything, it disrupts my healing process sef
I’ll try to explain with something that has never happened to me before..
So let’s assume i’m not feeling good and i’m at the hospital receiving drips..
I’ll be the last human to snap the drip and post just so people can start typing
“Omg get well soon Yom/Stay strong brother/Sorry my bro”
Like.. If all of you don’t getaut of my front!!😒
The average 9ja Woman would rather pray for God to bless her Man.. It automatically means the Family will grow…
Coz she knows that if God mistakenly blesses her instead, It still won’t reflect on the Family.
For me, one of the hardest part about being a man is the helplessness that comes with being broke.
When a man has money, people check on him. They call, they laugh with him, they celebrate him.
But when he’s broke, the silence can be deafening.
He’s expected to figure it out on his own. To be strong. To carry the weight without complaining. To smile when he’s breaking inside.
The hardest part isn’t always the empty wallet.
It’s feeling like you have no one to lean on.
You want to ask for help, but you hesitate because you’re afraid of being seen as weak. You keep your struggles to yourself because you’ve been taught that a man should solve his own problems.
So you suffer quietly.
You watch opportunities slip away. You lose sleep wondering how tomorrow will look. You replay every mistake, hoping you’ll find a way out.
And while everyone sees your silence, very few hear your cry for help.
Being broke can make a man feel invisible. Not because he has lost his worth, but because it can seem as though the world only notices him when he has something to offer.
Still, every morning he gets up, carries his burdens, and keeps trying.
Sometimes the bravest thing a man does isn’t winning.
It’s refusing to give up when he feels like he’s carrying the weight of the world alone.