i firmly believe that men are naturally more romantic and that pop culture convincing women to be romantic idealists and men to be โalpha malesโ was a devastating mistake.
Realistically when it comes to online โsubsโ the only way you can contribute to my life, is by sending. Anything else is self serving and it pisses me off when these self proclaimed subs call that โservingโ. You bought a service from me. You are in no way doing anything for ME.
In my eyes, I donโt see you as a sub. I see you as a client. You buy goods and services for me but donโt actually care at all about bettering my life.
Itโs fine to be a client but itโs super irritating when clients act like theyโre โserving meโ.