While transfer season is upon us again, I felt the need to say something this year because, yes, it can be frustrating as a Recruiting Coordinator who puts a lot of time and effort into helping young men pursue their goals.
High school football has changed dramatically over the last several years. What used to be rare has become common. Players transfer. Families move. New opportunities arise. Coaches across the country are dealing with it every offseason.
The reality is that transfer season affects more than just rosters. It affects teammates, relationships, locker rooms, and the culture that coaches and players spend years building together.
There are also countless hours that go into helping young men achieve their goals that most people never see. Phone calls with college coaches. Camp planning. Film evaluation. Academic conversations. Helping families navigate the recruiting process. Building relationships. Advocating for kids. None of that is required. It's done because we care.
Over the last year, I've invested a lot of time and energy into several young men who ultimately chose to leave. I'd be lying if I said that doesn't bother me. Coaches are human too. When you invest your time, effort, and heart into helping kids reach their goals, you're going to care deeply about the outcome.
But I also told our players who are here the same thing I've always believed: whether it's one player, three players, or ten players who leave, my commitment to the young men who choose to be here will never change.
I don't need Division I athletes in our program to be passionate about recruiting. I don't need future scholarship players to make me do all I can for our kids. If a young man wants help reaching his goals, wants guidance, wants someone in his corner, and is willing to put in the work, I'll do everything I can to help him get there.
I do what I do in recruiting because I WANT TO.
Football has always been about more than football. It's about learning how to respond when things don't go your way. It's about accountability, perseverance, resilience, and overcoming adversity. Those lessons matter long after the final snap is played.
A coach I listened to this past weekend at Tennessee said it best: "We want them to be prepared to be men, take care of themselves, and one day take care of a family. Because eventually football ends for everyone." If you're in coaching for the right reasons, that's always one of the main goals.
Our staff cares deeply about these kids. We celebrate their successes, hurt when they hurt, and do everything we can to help them become successful not only as athletes, but as men, husbands, fathers, and leaders in their future communities.
For the players and families who continue to trust us, thank you. We will continue to show up every day, invest in your sons, and help them chase their dreams.
The mission hasn't changed, and it won't change.
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Thankfully @OssaaCompliance has been sharing this info in Oklahoma, so that the masses see how ridiculous it’s becoming. Kids & parents shopping for “better fits” fail to realize that staying somewhere & putting in the work to build greatness is also an option.