🚨 Parents of High School Football Recruits
One of the biggest mistakes I see in recruiting is when parents try to take over the process instead of supporting it
College coaches are evaluating much more than film, statistics, and athletic ability. They are evaluating how a prospect communicates, handles adversity, interacts with others, and whether the family will be a positive fit within the program
Over the years, I have seen talented players miss opportunities because of poor communication, unrealistic expectations, social media issues, constant parental involvement, or simply a lack of understanding of how recruiting actually works
Some of the biggest mistakes parents make:
🔹 Speaking for their son during the recruiting process
🔹 Contacting coaches excessively
🔹 Treating camp invites as scholarship offers
🔹 Inflating height, weight, or testing numbers
🔹 Comparing their son to other recruits
🔹 Focusing too much on rankings and social media attention
🔹 Ignoring academic requirements
🔹 Chasing every camp without a recruiting plan
🔹 Becoming overly focused on NIL or one specific level of football
🔹 Creating unnecessary drama with coaches, programs, or teammates
A camp invite is not an offer. Rankings do not determine a player’s future. More camps do not automatically lead to more opportunities. And playing at the highest level possible is not always the same as finding the right fit
The best recruiting families:
✅ Allow their son to take ownership of the process
✅ Communicate professionally and respectfully
✅ Focus on academics as much as football
✅ Stay realistic about recruiting opportunities
✅ Trust the evaluation process
✅ Keep the focus on long term development and fit
Parents should focus on helping their son become the best student, athlete, and young man possible. Be supportive, be realistic, trust the process, and allow your son to take ownership of his recruitment
The families that navigate recruiting the best are usually the ones who stay humble, stay professional, and understand that recruiting is about finding the right fit, not winning a popularity contest
🏈 At the end of the day, the goal is not to win recruiting.
It is to help your son find the right school, earn a degree, continue playing football, and create opportunities that will benefit him long after his playing days are over
We don’t say THANK YOU enough! To all the men & women who have served this great country, THANK YOU! You have given us the freedom to play this game that we love! 🫡🇺🇸
Stopped by Lake Norman, HS, NC this afternoon to visit with 5* 2028 QB Kaden Craft 6'5" 210. Super strong and accurate arm, exceptional when extending plays and can run a 4.5. Dual threat who keeps his eyes down field and is deadly when hitting moving targets.@kadencraft07
Nobody wants to say this out loud:
Nearly 1 in 3 college athletes quit, because they lose passion for the game.
Many quit after the first year, because once they get there they realize the sport has become a job.
And while everyone glorifies the NCAA transfer portal, nearly 80 percent of student athletes who entered last year never found another school and “retired.”
Social media has sold kids (and their parents) the dream that “D-I or bust” is the only path that matters.
It’s not.
JUCO. NAIA. D3.
Those levels can change lives, too, by opening doors you’d never imagine.
If you want to play, there’s a place for you. Sorry to say this, but playing in college is no longer a flex.
Finding the RIGHT fit - not the flashiest one for clicks - is.
Don’t let the ego block a road.
Remember: Not every great sports story starts on ESPN or a post on social media.
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