Jacob Weaver

Head Coach Thomas Edison High School Philadelphia University of New Haven Football Alumni (2011-2015)

[Jacob Weaver @CoachWeaver_22]

@_bjr42 @LiamQuigley0 @UNewHavenFB Yea, you right!!!

[Jacob Weaver @CoachWeaver_22]

@TheReferee212 @MLFootball @JasonKelce @SoonersInsider @OUBarstool @CoachBobStoops @EaglesBurna @Eagles @howardeskin @JoshReynolds24 @JalenCarterDPOY Julius Peppers

[Jacob Weaver @CoachWeaver_22]

@_bjr42 @CoachRossomando BAWL

[New Haven Football @UNewHavenFB]

Defended The Blue.

#FAST #FindAWay

[New Haven Football @UNewHavenFB]

First touchdown of the season!

[John Pierson @JPPierson]

The @UNewHavenFB team opens the season with a 22-21 come from behind win over Marist. AJ Duffy threw for 311 yards & 2 TDs, one to Issac Glaudin & another to Nate Burleson II. The Chargers D only gave up 160 total yards @UNewHavenATH @WTNH

[New Haven Football @UNewHavenFB]

Standouts from the spring game on Saturday, starting with the victors from Team 🟨

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Nate Burleson ll with the one handed grab!

#FAST | #RidersOfTheNight

[New Haven Football @UNewHavenFB]

Thanks to @nateburleson for the shout-out on @CBSMornings earlier today!

Taking in the spring game then enjoying a slice in the pizza capital of the world? Who's got it better than us, right?

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[Seth Gross @GodsWrestler133]

There’s no single path in wrestling.

Some kids need to be pushed early. They’re winning everything, dominating locally, and if you don’t get them into better rooms and tougher tournaments they get comfortable. They start thinking they’re better than they actually are. Those kids need to get tested early so they stay hungry and stay humble.

But on the flip side, some kids are already getting tested every day. They’re losing in the room, losing at tournaments, struggling to place. And that’s where parents panic. They think something’s wrong so they try to add more—more training, bigger events, tougher competition.

That’s where it gets messed up.

If your kid is already getting beat, already dealing with adversity, already having to figure things out… they’re on the right path. That’s how you build resilience. Not from winning. From losing, adjusting, and showing back up anyway. Throwing them into something even harder doesn’t speed it up. Most of the time it just buries them. Harder isn’t better. Better is what they actually need.

The biggest problem is comparison. Parents see another kid dominating at the same age and think their kid is behind. So now it becomes blaming coaches, blaming the room, blaming everything instead of just understanding they’re on a different timeline.

You’re watching a snapshot and acting like it’s the whole story.

Some of those early studs never learn how to lose. Then they hit college, get beat every day, and they don’t know how to respond. No resilience. No identity. They fade out. Meanwhile the kid who couldn’t win a bracket at 10 learned how to handle losing, learned how to adjust, learned how to keep showing up when it sucked. That kid becomes dangerous later.

And then people get burnout completely wrong.

Burnout almost never comes from training too much. It comes from pressure. It comes from a kid feeling like every match defines them, like they’re letting people down, like they’re never doing enough. That’s what drains them.

You rarely see a kid who truly loves it and owns it burn out from mat time. What you do see is kids start to check out. They stop focusing in practice, go through the motions, avoid hard situations, and become inconsistent. Then people say they’re burned out.

No—they’re detached.

Wrestling stopped being something they enjoy and became something they feel judged on. And a lot of the time those kids were never fully bought in, they were just carrying expectations.

That ties right back into the path.

When you force a kid into a path that isn’t theirs—chasing rankings, chasing other kids, chasing results—you don’t build confidence, you build anxiety. So when things get hard they don’t lean in, they pull away.

The kids who last are the ones who were allowed to develop. Win, lose, struggle, figure it out. Because it’s theirs, not yours.

If your kid is winning, good—challenge them.

If your kid is losing, good—let them grow.

Either way stop panicking. Most kids don’t fail because they were on the wrong path. They fail because someone rushed it or made it about themselves, and eventually the kid walks away.

[Jacob Weaver @CoachWeaver_22]

Recap of the accomplishments over the past 4 years at Thomas Edison.

[GlobalWrestOrder @GlobalWresOrder]

🚨INSANE, LEGENDARY UPSET TO START THE NCAA FINALS‼️😭🔥

True freshman Sergio VEGA (OSU not only goes UNDEFEATED, but wins the NCAA title by beating P4P #1 2x NCAA Champion🥇Jesse MENDEZ (tOSU) 🤯🤯🤯

Legendary season for the Cowboy 🤠

[Jacob Weaver @CoachWeaver_22]

@BarstoolGruden @UNewHavenFB New Haven Up!

[Jon Gruden @BarstoolGruden]

We got a great box from New Haven, CT!!! It's the New Haven Chargers!

They're a new D1 program and they are on the rise, man!

Thank you to Coach Powell and @UNewHavenFB for sending this stuff!! Even though it's weird to say as an ex-Raider... Let's go Chargers!!

[Crime With Bobby @CrimeWithBobby]

HERO: Delaware State Police have identified the trooper killed in Tuesday’s shooting at a Wilmington DMV as Matthew T. Snook.

Known as “Ty,” the 34-year-old corporal was a 10-year veteran of the Delaware State Police from Hockessin. Authorities say he was working an overtime shift when he was fatally shot, acting to protect others in the building.

He is survived by his wife and his one-year-old daughter.

[Mark Powell @Coach_Pow]

GA… Day 2️⃣ ‼️#FAST

[Coach Gus @coachgus215]

1500 yards. Straight dog. Really looking for a good #JUCO or Prep school #JUCOPRODUCT

[Coach Gus @coachgus215]

OL ready for next level as well. Can’t have a crazy run game without the Line

[Coach Gus @coachgus215]

Since starting at Edison, I’ve had 1 goal, change the culture. I knew it would be a tough task flipping one of the worst football schools in the state, but I love a task. In 2 years, I’ve been able to accomplish a lot and this is just the beginning! Thank you to the players that have trusted me and the coaches that have helped me!

[Mark Powell @Coach_Pow]

#RidersOfTheNight #FAST