One thing I truly appreciate about myself is that I’ve learned to trust my mind and my intuition.
Whenever something presents itself and I sense it’s not good for me, or I feel like it’s going to go wrong, or someone might disappoint me, my body lets me know.
I also learned that some people are comfortable benefiting from your vulnerability but become uncomfortable the moment you expect reciprocity.
They ask questions, seek details, demand honesty, and then hide behind "privacy " or "rules" When you want to know something.
One of the hardest lessons I have had to learn is that just because someone wants access to you doesn't mean they want to be accountable to you.
Some people want to know everything about your life while sharing absolutely nothing about theirs.
Been doing some reflecting lately, and I realised I don’t care the same way anymore. Not in a bitter way though. I am done over giving, over sharing and over explaining myself.
Mental stimulation is a big thing for me. If we can't connect on that level, the rest nah go mean much. I need conversation, depth, and a mind that challenge mine.
Thats a man I can submit to.
I like being sexual and all but sex alone cyaan hold my attention. I need more than that. You could have the best penis in the world, but if there’s no intelligence behind it, there’s really nothing there for me.
One thing I truly appreciate about myself is that I’ve learned to trust my mind and my intuition.
Whenever something presents itself and I sense it’s not good for me, or I feel like it’s going to go wrong, or someone might disappoint me, my body lets me know.
I’ve always been intentional about sex. I wish I was like some bottoms instant link ready but that’s not me. I’ve tried.
I’m not looking a relationship, but I need some connection emotional or intellectual to enjoy sex.
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@ThickDickFem876 I am sticking with standards . Prerequisites feel like hoops people have to jump through. Standards are boundaries I set for myself so I can feel safe, respected, and actually enjoy the experience.