Some people are literally not used to being loved unconditionally. They have never seen it, nor experienced it. They don’t even know how to identify it.
Some people haven’t been taken care of in this world.
So when you show up and take care of them, they almost reject it
Unpopular Opinion: It’s really not a lot of good women for men to pick from. Women have a lot of influenced bad behaviors & not willing to modify themselves as needed for the right man due to enablement and complacency. Every woman thinks she’s a good woman.