no relationship is perfect. you have to be forgiving, accepting, and understanding of your s/o. if you expect perfection 24/7, you will be successful in literally none of your relationships.
rt if you've ever:
- self-harmed
- attempted suicide
- been to a therapist
- cancelled on things because you don't have the energy to live
- lied about being okay
- had a panic attack in a public bathroom
the world needs to know how common these things are.
My 5 year old kid was playing on the porch and saw 2 spiders. He asked "is one of them a mommy long legs?" I told him they're both daddy long legs and was proud of him until he stomped both of them and said "miss me with that gay shit"