Show her your visions
Tell her how you plan on actualizing it
Paint a picture of the future for her
Let it be very detailed and vivid that she dreams of it
Now show her that you are committed to this plan like your life depends on it because it actually does
She will naturally become a follower if you do this
She will naturally become submissive,
even if you are as broke as a skunk
When my fellow unserious friend stopped talking to me, when he saw my CGPA in 200level. He said I am a wicked person
We both don't attend classes and we both don't have materials.
My CGPA was 4.36, his was 2.31 or so. After seeing my result,he said we should end the friendship
@Yehgha In my uni days, I was friends with a girl, that always remind me that" I am not too handsome, I should not deceive myself" because I got my way with girls
And the girl is very microscopic, short and gorilla in facial features.
I,one day insulted her life and she stopped
The problem with your list is:
1. Old money familyβs son will not marry you. (statistically)
He already has three equally Old Money childhood friends from name brand families, who went to all the same schools as him, who his family expect him to select from and marry or he will lose a significant portion of his inheritance.
2. The height requirement specifically makes the likelihood of finding everything else on the list really hard, especially since there is a hidden condition of him also being Nigerian.
3. You can find someone with everything on this list in Nigeria (I actually know a few) except the height requirement.
If you change the height requirement from 6 feet 4 inches to βtall for his ethnicityβ, you will find the whole list.
The problem with height requirements is that people just pick a number, without remembering that average height can be related to your ethnic background.
If you were looking for a 6ft 4 inch Sudanese or Rwandan, you would find thousands and thousands.
In Nigeria depending on the tribe, you might have an easier time.
But the chances of finding a 6ft 4 man from Akwa Ibom for example, (combined with the rest of the list) is almost impossible.