Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe

Am a builder( civil Engineer), a father, husband, a promoter of culture, Advicer and a spirituality Seeker.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Dammi_Esq I will move in with her, at least it will give us enough room to save and invest in properties, before finally moving in to a better place.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@HeartMattaz Your house your rules.
You can't stay in someone's house and be doing any how dear.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@HeartMattaz Trying finding some one with high libido like you.
You can start from there, once you are able to maintain one person you can stop it.
But first build self control, don't think you can just stop it once, because is now a habit and habit takes time to stop.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@The_Chidimma Some people and another person headache eeeeh

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Confydens6 My dear is a pity that mothers this days, don't behave as one.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@declasiqstudio_ Till you leave first, I still say at no marriage is perfect.
Always try to protect your home don't let bitter people turn your marriage upside down.
Protect your home ooooo.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@HeartMattaz Death 💀 is never the best option.
Try changing your location at the moment, find new hubby, try talking to one or two persons about what you are going through.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Wizarab10 You never won stop bro, keep it going prison awates you.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Aretetolife_03 This one weak me, will I call this wisdom or being use to such actions?

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Tess_ogar He will come back dear, but give him reasons to.
Trust is had to build, please don't fight it and don't force it or you will appear desperate.
Take your time show him that you really regretted your actions, start by giving him good plans and care.
His insecure, build him.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Adunniolaide02 Some girls get mind oooo

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@HeartMattaz Otilo it is finished, go away from that relationship, nothing good will come out of it.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@HeartMattaz She's getting it outside your marriage man, is a pity you are finding it out late.
Try taking her to a tarapist to know if there is anything she's hiding from you if not.
Go and look for another wife or die out of frustration.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Mendonotmarry @instablog9ja Hmmm nawaoooo some men and their thinking cap.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@instablog9ja To be honest staying at home while the woman is away, I don't see anything wrong in cooking since am home.
I cook for my family any time am home. so for me cooking shouldn't be a gender based something.
Once you have the time cook and clean both of you own the house.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Onu516981924063 @instablog9ja At least she's million times better 🥰😜 than you.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@instablog9ja The woman no try at all, but the man also is wrong. at least show some respect by call her outside.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@Onu516981924063 @instablog9ja When you see useless future mothers, you will know 😉.

[Achokwu Onyedikachi Ihe @ComedianBright]

@YulEdochie Likewise you na

[Toyyib Adewale Adelodun @taadelodun]

At 15, my father sent me to a stranger's house at night.
It changed the trajectory of my life.

I was struggling with Maths.

In Mushin, there was one tutor everyone whispered about.

He was so good he taught the children of the wealthy privately.

Bode Omotowoju Bankole.

My father went to see him.
We couldn't afford his prices.

After much persuasion, the compromise was harder to swallow.

He would charge 100 Naira per hour
but the condition was that I had to spend the night at his place.

He needed every naira he could earn to survive as a UNILAG student.

My mother said no.

My father looked at me
and said nothing.

He hustled for the money.
And he took the risk.

Poverty does not give you perfect conditions.

At night, Bode would wake me:
"Wale, what time is it?"
"3am."

Then we did Maths for two hours.

Night after night.
For weeks.

When I returned to school, something had shifted.

I wasn't catching up.
I was flying.

In the end:

WAEC - A1 (Maths)
NECO - A1 (Maths)

Those foundations stayed with me.

They are part of why I chose Civil Engineering years later when I returned to university as an undergraduate at age 30.

This is why I struggle when I see young people refuse to engage.

This generation faces fewer barriers to knowledge than any in history.

You have:

Khan Academy
ChatGPT (Take a free prompt engineering course to know how to use it well)
World-class professors on YouTube, from India to the US

Entire calculus courses - free

What you are fighting is not scarcity.
It is DISTRACTION.

For the poor African child, the journey has always been hard by design, not by accident.

"The future you is silently depending on the current you to stay disciplined"

If this reframed something for you,
Please share it with someone you love.

And follow for more.
We will rise together.