Hey yall. This may come as shocking and upsetting for some of you to read, but I ask you to all take this post with an open mind and rational thinking. It may be difficult, but having watched the impact she has had on my friends/community leads me to ask you to read this post. 🙏
Hey all, buckle up for a lengthy post. Apologies in advance ❤️🙏
tw: SA, False Accusations, Manipulation, Slander, Breach of Privacy Ethics
@/Themis_FFXIV recently wrote about her experience with someone she claims was se▒ually coercive and ab▒sive to her. I have something to add to this from a new perspective.
I don’t really do call outs - but here’s one, because her story has ruined someone’s online livelihood. She’s also done the same to us behind the scenes on Discord and in-game. I would otherwise never bring this up but I feel compelled to stand up to injustice and share more of the story to give you further context on the matter.
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⚠️I want to reinforce that I do not want her to be hara▒sed over this, do▒xed, mobbed, etc. Please be sensible. However, I do want to warn you about her before she goes too far again with her growing reputation in NA. ⚠️
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I know this person from 2022-23 - She goes by Alex, is a prolific Themis roleplayer, and previously G’raha roleplayer. She joined Materia DC and our community when it opened.
She has lied about people before and made very serious accusations about them which were debunked and proven wrong.
Please don’t listen to her or take her seriously. Please assess the validity of comments taken out of context.
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I can’t speak to others' experiences on the matter, but you can hear it from them via their replies and QRTs. About my experience: I’ve been her friend for 2 years, we spoke every day and roleplayed our ship constantly.
Over that time I’ve observed her harmful behaviours and observed she is a compulsive liar (been caught multiple times and admitted many lies herself) and shows signs of being a narcissist (exaggeration, one-upping, garnering sympathy, looking for positions of popularity / power). She needs some professional help.
There’s too many behaviours to mention in one post alone, and I think the full context is necessary. I will be summarising some of it in the rest of this thread.
👇 Doc 👇
https://t.co/43Kb0RBo4D
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