You honestly can’t pick a babydaddy wisely! You’ll be with a nigga 5 years and have his baby and find out he’s a weirdo. Shit changes a lot of times when kids get involved. Y’all gotta drop that narrative. BUT! What I can say is it takes for you to have a baby to see and say that
I’m a lover fr. I like to cuddle and go to sleep next to one person. Catering to one person. Praying for one person. Basically having MY OWN person who loves me, understands me, and builds with me. Y’all can have that sneaky link culture. My soul ain’t for sharing