do cats have a sense of causation between grooming themselves and coughing up hairballs or do they think it's just an annoying separate thing which just happens to them sometimes
Walked out of a date halfway through dinner when it became clear she hadn't read the lore primer I sent her about my homebrew fantasy setting "Fanterra". Called the Moon People "elves" (which is a slur to them) and even mixed up the Blackiron Mountains with the Glittering Hills.