@Jus_Hloni@SmahMadlala I suggest for your emotional well-being and peace of mind you need to forgive him and move on. Tell him you have forgiven him but you do not need anything from him. Do not allow his behaviour to influence the person that you have grown up to be.
@Abicah_Soul @Jus_Hloni I think we are all agreeing, the curses do not hold if the child is innocent. Whoever is at fault is the one affected by the curse. God is just and fair.
@TomHarry1878@Jus_Hloni You may want to research more about how blessings and curses work. It's the one in authority who has the power to bless or curse the lesser, not the other way round. Otherwise we would all be just blessing (or cursing) our parents with words alone if it were that easy.