How would you feel/respond if your partner told you they would leave the room/disengage from conflict temporarily if you raise your voice and/or use profanity *during conflict*? Like, “if you cuss or get loud at me during conflict, I’ll pause the conflict.” Is that unfair to you?
You could literally buy someone diapers, wipes, a can of formula, a meal for the parents, an Amazon gift card, 100 different things that would be more useful and appreciated than baby clothes 😅😅 yet all ppl buy is clothes