@awkwardgoogle They don't feel a thing and after 10 minutes or so they start to cry and they tell you to give them a tit, that tit will be never the same for the baby starting to prefer the other one.
I would like to have many children but this is too much, better not living it again
Reading things around made me think about my grandma (so different but I miss her so much) when she told me what happened in Molfetta Vecchia where women and children died hidden in the walls when the Saracens arrived (they found their skeletons there 🫤)