Respect your man while he is building. Everyone loves the finished product, but there is something powerful about the woman who believed when the money was tight, the plan was messy, and the results were invisible. Loyalty during the process hits different.
People hit 30 and give up on life. No, your life is not over because you’re in your 30s or 40s. Life is not over because you were in a wack relationship, have kids, are in debt, , let your body go etc. Hit the reset button. Change your habits, learn a skill, do whatever it takes to turn your life around, but giving up is wack. If you want it bad enough, you can come back from pretty much anything.
Society has mastered the art of giving ugly things pretty names to protect people’s egos.
Prostitutes = Adult content creators.
Mentally ill people= LGBTQ
Promiscuity = Sexual liberation
Gold digging = Knowing your worth
Manipulation = Being strategic
Arrogance = High self esteem
Commitment issues = Keeping my options open
Lacking accountability = Protecting my truth
People have become so obsessed with sounding acceptable that they’ve forgotten how to be accountable.