@somebody20_ @Bronzeborg @mahd_omid@lilit_of_hell ....be romantic, bring her in the mood to change her decision, followed by foreplay, and then engage in physical intimacy. If she still doesn’t come in the mood, it may be natural biology, psychology, or nature and may fall under the subjective valid excuse definition.
@somebody20_ @Bronzeborg @mahd_omid@lilit_of_hell These may be a valid excuses (and Allah (ﷻ) knows best) and to counter that, the man will have to send the good word as stated by Ibn al-Qayyim (رحمه الله) (see footnote 4) i.e. ....