I watched my friend cry in her car for 30 minutes, then walked in my house smiling and joking like nothing even happened. People really be fighting silent battles every day while still showing up and making others smile.
Don't go above and beyond for people anymore. Meet them as far as they meet you. Speak to them as much as they speak to you. Include them as much as they include you.
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
i’m convinced everyone has been going to Beyoncé’s concert for Rumi & Blue, not for beyoncé 😂😂😂😂 cause why yall keep cropping that lady out of her own concert
Saw a tiktok about surrounding yourself around those who just get it. Not having to overly explain yourself, change up your humor or anything and i felt that. I love my people that just get me, because its exhausting trying to explain you.
I saw a TikTok where a woman said, if you’re a giver, you need to find another giver to love. You’ll always be happier with someone like you. And damn… if that ain’t the truth. Bc givers don’t just love, we pour. We stretch, we sacrifice, we make space where there is none.