We are asking all these irrelevant questions because we are a comfortable church! Do you think these are the kind of questions our brethren up north is asking!? When you attend a Fancy air-conditioned church in Lagos and have no active kingdom assignments like discipleship and follow up this is the kind of argument we get and you start seeing people calling themselves funny things like "Christian feminist". I live in Lagos and I know what I mean when I say we are "the comfortable" church and comfort is a dangerous thing.
People will not always agree with each other or share the same opinions.
Differences in views are normal.
However, even when disagreements happen, everyone involved should still treat each other with respect.