She tapped on the ceiling so the neighbors could lower the noise. They had that agreement. She didn’t know the neighbor moved.
A friend of the new tenant came downstairs acting tough and tried to drag her out the house so she dragged her in, locked the door and beat her up.
I’ve learned over the years that I love both intensely and with intent. I shield people from this so 1) it doesn’t overwhelm them and 2) I don’t get my own feelings hurt.