If an autistic person asks for clarification, they are not:
Being aggressive
Being rude
Being obtuse
Trying to annoy you
Whatever ableist slur you are throwing at them
They are:
โข asking for clarification itโs not about you, donโt take it personal, just explain.
Autistic people aren't bad at communication. Theyโre bad at performing the version of communication where everyone says half-truths, hides the actual point, changes meaning with tone, and then gets upset when you answer the sentence they literally said.
ADHD is saving screenshots, bookmarks, and notes because you're afraid of losing a great idea... then never opening them again because the collection became overwhelming.