Adedamola

No Grind No Grit No Greatness||Philippians 4:13||Baller🏀||Computer Engineer.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

Women are really smarter than we give them credit for. 😂

Everything they do for a man, or anything concerning a man, seems to come with a carefully worded set of conditions. “If I genuinely love him.” “When I’m comfortable with him.” “If he makes me feel safe.” “When I know his intentions are genuine.” “If he proves that he deserves it.” “When I feel emotionally connected to him.” “If he treats me well.” “When he has earned my trust.” “Men are initiators; women are reciprocators.”

There is always a prerequisite, a condition, or a threshold that has to be crossed before the woman is expected to give anything. You have to love your man before you spoil him. You have to feel safe before you open up. You have to trust him before you become vulnerable. You have to be comfortable before you start going out of your way for him.

Yet somehow, a man who has just met you, exchanged numbers with you, and started talking to you is expected to start demonstrating “intentionality” immediately. He is expected to spend, pursue, plan, prove his seriousness, show consistency, and make you feel special before he has even been given enough time or opportunity to establish whether there is anything worth investing in. 😂😂😂

The asymmetry is fascinating. The woman’s effort is often presented as something a man must first earn, while the man’s effort is treated as something he should demonstrate from the very beginning.

God sees all. 😂

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@lanrelndn Where's Roll up Re-up with Emtee and AKA?

[Daniel C, Wells @DanielWellings_]

Manifesting these before the month ends:

✅ 20+ client testimonials
✅ xxx business grant approval
✅ 5k followers on this page
✅ At least 3 of you landing that dream offer letter

Speak it into existence with me.

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@Mrbankstips Abraham dey send that Congratulations to my email this month 🤲🏽

[Oluwaferanmie @Feranmi_Babs]

When people get offers, they text me to appreciate me for the videos and directions and most times I see the full salary breakdown of these firms.

All I just want to say is that don't listen to people who tell you that banks still pay you 180k. Even if you don't get into O&G, you have a shot at a decent form through GT roles that pays you decently.

Not been on the TL like before, but I regularly still communicate with folks on WhatsApp.

It's always ONE "we are pleased to offer" that changes the tides of things. You still have a chance to have a decent career and infact excel so well at it.

Don't listen to the negatives on here!

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@FRONTENDDEV9JA @ENEMIESENEMY @princess_ehmy @LadyGrasha Religion dey do more damage than we realize. Like bro babe admit say she dey wrong next step nah to go dey pray make the man succumb and admit fault to wettin she do instead of taking the helm and apologising for what she did. She wan gaslight God 😂😭

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@ENEMIESENEMY @princess_ehmy @LadyGrasha @FRONTENDDEV9JA 😂😂😂 wettin be this guy? Read the thread and this reply... They don kpami

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@FRONTENDDEV9JA @1meajay

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@FRONTENDDEV9JA @jok13037 Prodigal Friend 😂!

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@Wizarab10 @FRONTENDDEV9JA 😂😂 Pastor update sure like mad seh

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@yxyiagain You no wan die for Abule Egba 😭😂

[Samuel Adeyemo @Jomo_Of_FUTA]

Unique ID: 439518 (2024)
Unique ID: 452766 (2025)

I am a graduate of Industrial Mathematics from the Federal University of Technology, Akure (FUTA), where I graduated in the top 5% of my class. During my undergraduate studies, I received multiple scholarships and recognitions for academic excellence and leadership, including the PTDF and HillCity Foundation scholarships.

1/5

[Johnmark Obiefuna @jayhemz]

Only Nigerians use this phrase.

Whites only see someone with the experience or someone to be trained.

What does being "unemployable" even mean? So the person is retarded and can't work regardless or what exactly?

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

You think I'm happy living abroad?

I have a family I grew up with, whom I love with all of my heart - and the reality keeps dawning on me, on how many times I will see them before I one day turn 60.

People I saw daily, or once a month - I haven't seen in years, and would realistically only see once a year, going forward.

You think I'm happy?

That one day, I might end up having children and my siblings might not have the relationship with them - the relationship I had with my uncles, in my formative years? I remember clearly how they would take us to MrBiggs every Sunday - I am currently reliving the flavour from that meatpie.

How we would go to the family house in Ikeja, every year for Eid. The grandchildren uniforms, the snacks while watching your uncles slaughter rams.

You think I'm happy that I might one day lead a family of children who might not know their version of that?

WTF will I be doing in another man's land, if I did everything they asked me to do from childhood (face your studies, be exceptional, stay away from crime, be hardworking) and opportunities lined up for me to be the best I could, in my motherland? WTF will I be doing here?

Why will I condescend myself to living in a clime where I have to mentally switch from sun burning weather to teeth clenching winter - when I came from a land where I never needed gloves? You think I'm happy?

If I could do honest work, be on my way home and not have to bother about the risk of getting shot by the people meant to protect me, because I have some lines of tattoos on my body - you think I would leave?

If I could trust a justice system to defend me, ensure my rights even though I am a nobody - have trustworthy institutions banking on the highest standards, not have to worry about the bread I eat, the fake drinks from the club or streets, the fake drugs - you think I would leave?

Don't get me wrong. I am grateful for the opportunities this clime has given me, to test my limits - to be everything I thought I could be. But all of these, in replacement for the soul I grew up with?

You know the satisfaction that settled within me when I could wake up on a Saturday morning, stroll to the Iya wanke's place - relish an entire plate, or some ewa agonyin while watching children battle it out, in a 5 v 5 across the streets.

That communal living that relished my soul, is now replaced with silent streets and finely divided sealed terraces.

You walk through the city centres in the evenings - you see friends having an aperitif (they do so every evening), you see grandfathers meeting up with their children, you see entire families with extended families living across the streets, first cousins are even able to use the same gym and you remember what that looked like for you back home?

You think of all your friends scattered across continents, some you might never get to hug again.

For a lot of diasporans, you don't want Nigeria to work more than us. A lot of us want to come home, but what is home? Where is home? When will home feel like home?

I hope to continue living life without lack, in comfort, with accomplished dreams - but I want to do so, with soul. When I die one day, I want to do so - with soul.

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@_apex_divine Can a computer engineering graduate apply?

[highFashion @rahman_jago_]

dear God.
remove the comfort that keeps me average and replace it with courage to become who you created me to be. amen.

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

I got a mentor and I Started learning about DevOps today. Let's see what happens next 30 days, The goal is to be a junior DevOps engineer by December

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Happy New Month, everyone 🫶

Reply or quote this tweet with a 30D goal you intend to achieve this month.

Financial, academic, health, career, personal development - any goal.

Then, come back on the 30th to requote when you accomplish that goal.

#Execute

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@_VALKlNG Ragebait??

[Joseph Brendan @Joe_brendan_]

I strongly feel if you have never lived outside Lagos and Abuja and if you have never been to the 6 geo political zones of Nigeria

You should not hold serious opinions about Nigeria

If you are arguing the Piggyvest 1m a month statistics, you are out of touch

In every Nigerian state,

If you announce that you will share 20,000 Naira to each person, you will fill up a 100k capacity stadium and have a stampede

You people don't know the level of poverty our leaders have dipped this country into.

[Adedamola @Cruxadar]

@Odd_Legal @_ogbenioye @Teeniiola On point 😂😂