y’all genuinely have to lock in this year no discourse no ironic homophobia no dumb shit we gotta uplift the community and especially trans people right now
Staying in love is harder if we’re being real.
Falling in love mostly happens when everything is still soft and exciting. You’re always texting, calling, checking up on each other and it feels effortless at that stage.
But staying in love after seeing each other’s flaws, after misunderstandings, after bad moods, stress and all the realities of life start showing up, that’s the difficult part.
Because love stops being just feelings at that point and becomes a choice too. A lot of people can fall in love, but not everybody knows how to stay, communicate, be patient and keep putting in effort when things are no longer perfect.