If you do nice things for a woman, it makes YOU like HER more.
If you get her to do nice things for you, it makes HER like YOU more.
Aristotle called this phenomenon counterintuitive 2,400 years ago.
Ben Franklin discusses it in his Autobiography.
It’s counterintuitive to how most people expect things to work. But it’s how they actually DO work.
This is why ‘being the nice guy’ is so generally a losing strategy.
Nice guys do a lot of stuff for girls, which makes them REALLY like those girls.
However, when you’re doing a lot for her, you leave a lot less room for her to do for you.
And her doing for you is how she gets more invested in you and likes YOU more.
If you want a girl to like you, rather than just you liking her, you need to let her invest.
That means giving her OPPORTUNITIES to invest:
• Ask her to help you out with something
• Tell her to move over & make some room for you
• Have her show you something (her jewelry, clothes, pics on her phone, etc.)
• Have her go save seats for you while you take care of something
• Ask her to do a little research for the two of you
Give her the chance to actually invest, and she will treat you very different (much better, actually) than the girl you do all the work for.
She’ll like you a lot more, too.
9 THINGS MANY WOMEN WON'T SAY OUT LOUD
1. She notices how you treat people who can't do anything for you.
2. She pays attention to consistency more than grand gestures.
3. She remembers the little things you think she forgot.
4. She often knows how she feels about you long before she says it.
5. She wants to feel understood, not just heard.
6. She notices confidence, but she also notices arrogance.
7. She watches what you do more than what you say.
8. She appreciates effort more than most men realize.
9. She wants honesty, even when the truth is uncomfortable.
@Urchilla01 I clocked this in 2019. He couldn't provide back then, Kim was working and saving, and if you've read about Marshall Mathews, you'll know he was a drug addict even before meeting Dr Dre. Every house they lived in getting robbed wasn't a coincidence.
Signs of Mutual Attraction
1. You can make each other laugh.
2. You're both comfortable with each other's touch and proximity.
3. You remember the smallest details about one another.
4. You try to impress each other.
5. You forget other people are in the room.
6. Your faces light up when you see each other.
7. You look for excuses to touch.
8. Conversation flows easily, and you're both genuinely interested in learning about the other person.
9. You can't stop looking into each other's eyes.
10. You cozy up to each other when you're on a date.
11. You tease each other (and enjoy it).
12. People start to comment about your connection.
13. Even the silence is comfortable.
14. There is mutual flirting from both the sides.