Most people do not deserve explanations. They just need to get a clear straightforward statement and leave the rest onto them. Speaking things up is our job but changing opinions/perspective is out of control. Explanation just feeds their ego than clearing situations most times.
It's all about maintaining authority over your emotions rather than completing blocking a certain "effect". What should be talked about is moderation and discernment than a complete stagnant stoic nature immune to any external influence. Better be a dead dog then.
I do not understand such quotes sometimes. For any normal human being it is natural to be affected/influenced by any statement made about them whether positive or negative. How does this directly equate to slave? In that sense everyone's a slave in some other twisted definitions.
It should be all about regulation and staying grounded in your identity and not letting anything sweep you off from your usual trajectory. Sometimes a praise serves as uplighting validation and can motivate a person and an insult can push them into overthinking spiral.
Saw the videos of FGM that's showing up on twitter trending topic currently and it's highly disturbing. Makes me wonder why society has to create a regressive practice for each and every normal thing. Reasons such a purity chastity hygiene etc are given without any solid base.
@Lucifer_Bhai Well honestly. Fuck them. One should be talking about all related topics unbiasedly if they support a certain ideology, in this case, human rights and feminism but those hypocrites cherry pick topics according to their religious frustration and political orientation.
In india abusing PM is easy, CM a little more difficult & going after municipality babus & politicians is most difficult. Only when you organise & grab municipality babus by collars, you can feel the change, else you can keep tagging Modi for pothole in your municipal road.
Thank you feminism. Because of you , I can get education, own property, have cards, wear whatever i want, reject marriages or motherhood, use internet, hire people to assist me, and many more…
I used to be way too stupid in attempt of trying to be an "understanding" person and also someone who tries best not to hurt others (even if they were wrong). Now I think that maybe the bullshit should be called out loud and there's no need to accomodate empathy for anyone always
Bought a kapur dani and the whole house smells heavenly now. I really like the smell of kapur and how lighter and positive it makes the environment feel.
Someone on this post asked about effect on intimacy post pregnancy and claimed it to be a genuine question. Went on their profile and it was filled with anti -feminist, hateful and misogynist stuff. One of them being "see women as a hole for birthing and sexual acts". Pathetic.
Samjh nahi aata in ladko ka. Some glorify vaginal birth and some say stuff like this. Why do they think they should be making decisions about a woman's body? Let her decide based on her tolerance level and capacity. Weirdass excuses everywhere
People are asking why she boarded an empty bus.
She was 16. It was raining. She was stranded. She made the only decision that seemed safe in that moment and two adult men chose to violate her for it.
Travelling alone is not consent. Being stranded is not consent. Making a mistake about which stop to get off at is not consent. Having a fight at home before leaving is not consent. None of these things are consent. Nothing is consent except consent.
The question being asked should not be why she boarded that bus. It should be why two grown men decided that a stranded teenager was an opportunity.
We keep auditing the girl’s choices and giving the rapists a pass.