@douglaskarr@RealCandaceO who's to say it didn't also happen face-to-face? Sometimes people want things said in writing but explain it more in person because something in writing can be taken in so many different ways.
@_celia_bedelia_ He is simply asking her not to show the world her ass when they're in a relationship together. If I was single, I would probably dress differently. I'm married, so there's something called respect for my husband and vows.
@douglaskarr@RealCandaceO It actually should be in writing so the other person can't say it was never said. I know someone who just broke up with someone because she agreed to what was said but kept going back on her word. Now she's trying to start crap because he's moved on and is actually happy.
@_celia_bedelia_ This is abuse how? I don't see a misuse of the term. Maybe there is way more to it than what is here. This is a simple request from a partner. If it was the other way around, her saying it to him, it wouldn't be emotional abuse to you, would it? Didn't think so. SMH.