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All of you claiming Temu deceived you, are you blind or you cannot read reviews of others especially your country people?
I have bought from Temu and so far it has been blissful or is it a trend for us to laugh? 😒
I learnt recently from a senior learned colleague that for you to be successful in the legal profession you need to do three things. You have to:
1. You have to grind: This is basically reading, making researches and so on in short it means you have to be brilliant
“If you don’t have wisdom & you are Joseph, you will think Potiphar’s wife liking you is favour. A wise Christian is better than a strong Christian”
If you are a corp member in Osogbo, instead of wasting your money on konsongbo PMP or UI/UX courses, just go & learn tailoring & barbing at @toyone_couture & @Cheyih_Viktah respectively. I will pay for your registration fee and also lobby for 50% discount on training fee (T&C's)
Business owners in Canada have so many advantages, I sometimes call it the unfair advantage. One of the biggest? Using your corporation to buy life insurance. Most people have no idea this is even possible. Let me break it down. A thread!
I spent 4 years paying my younger sister’s school fees. Every single kobo.
The day she graduated, she gave the acknowledgement speech and thanked everyone except me.
I sat in that hall and felt my soul leave my body 😭.
When she got admission, things were tight at home.
I had just started my first job.
I told our parents, "Don't worry. I’ll handle it." And I did.
Every semester. No breaks.
There were months I was eating 0-1-0 so her account wouldn't run dry.
I never told her. I didn't think I needed to.
Graduation day, she looked beautiful. The first graduate in our family.
I was prouder of her than I’ve ever been of myself.
Then she got the mic.
> She thanked God. (Fair).
> She thanked our parents. (Expected).
> She thanked her friends who kept her sane.
> She even thanked her HOD.
Then she sat down.
My mother looked at me. I smiled and looked away, but the clapping felt like it was happening in a different room.
I didn’t say anything that day. Or the week after.
But something in how I moved changed.
I stopped volunteering. Started waiting to be asked. Started noticing who actually noticed me.
People say, "Don’t give to be recognized." I agree to an extent.
But there is a thin line between not needing applause and being erased by the person you bled for.
That's not humility. That's invisibility.
We’re fine now. I brought it up six months later, calmly.
She cried, and said she was nervous and blanked.
Maybe. Maybe not 🤷
But I learned something either way.
Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment.
Tell people what you are carrying for them. Not to guilt trip them. But because silence makes martyrs, and martyrs make bitter people.
This same dynamic shows up in dating every day.
You’re playing the provider or the supporter in silence, while your partner thinks you're just an oil money that never runs dry.
Stop accepting the bare minimum of gratitude. If they don't see the sacrifice, they won't value the person making it.
Has someone ever made you feel invisible in a relationship after everything you did for them?
Let’s talk below.👇
Plug me to that reasonable landlord who has house to rent out to tenants @InsideOsogbo and beyond.
I am looking to work with only house owners who want ease for their tenants and themselves.
I have a model that can work without charging agency and all those excess fee.
RT 🙏