4. Trust your own reality: your reality is valid even when someone doesn't agree.
Remind yourself: "I am safe to trust what've experienced."
This will strengthen your intuition and regulate your nervous system.
@TinaZinhle Marriage should improve life.
Not just for one person.
For both.
If someone's life gets smaller, heavier, or less free after marriage…
something is off.
Ask Them:
- "Can you help me understand what you mean by that?"
- "Do you think that comment helps this conversation?"
- "I hear you're frustrated, can you tell me why?"
- "That feels intense, what's behind that comment?"
Marry the person who's found their calling and passion. Envy kills more marriages than infidelity does. Marry someone who loves to see you rise because they're rising too.