the way ruin the friendship is structured is so genius cuz at first you think it’s a simple love song, then you judge the gilfriend line, then you realise it’s high school days, start vibing and then BAM devastation and everything clicks at once
the more you increase your emotional intelligence, the less you'll take things personally because you'll realize that most people aren't reacting to you, they're reacting to their own past, their own fears, their own struggles, their own bad days
me preguntaron: "¿por qué es importante ser amable?", les respondí: "porque nunca se sabe quién está de luto, exhausto o apenas resistiendo. Tu amabilidad podría ser la única ternura que sientan hoy".