A woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. Andno, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
Y'all are so obsessed with finding a man... girl go study, find a better job, find a skincare regimen, tweek your resume, read a book, keep your priorities straight!
People do not care. They will hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships or family
Girl to girl: INVEST IN UR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get ur hair & nails done. you look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat u better, life is better
maturing is realising that there comes a moment where you decide “this is the last time these people are going to make me feel this way,” and you actually mean it. whether it’s family, a relationship, or a friendship.
Here’s what it really represents:
47th in education
45th in healthcare
44th in median household income
43rd in life expectancy
1st in incarceration rate
2nd in teen pregnancy
3rd in reliance on federal aid
So yeah — God bless Oklahoma. Y’all need it.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.