Advice from my beloved Ustaadh.
When I got a job and was about to start working, I phoned him to ask for some advice... He mentioned two things I didnโt fully understand at the time.. but I'm starting to understand them now.
Reciting the Qurโan, sending salawat upon the Prophet ๏ทบ, and making istighfar do not take time away from your day. Rather, they bring barakah into your time.
It is not that by spending time with the Qurโan you will have less time for everything else.
It's ok to know what u looking for in a partner when it comes to marriage. It's ur choice. Every1 has a type. Whether it's race, complexion, background, upbringing, mindset, qualifications, or whatever else. There's nothing wrong with that
But this is where some people go wrong.
So my point is... stop expecting a ready-made partner.
No one's perfect.
Look for good foundations, good character, and someone willing to grow with you. The rest can be built together, with patience, effort, and the help of Allah.