SMH. You're just a Nigerian, and that is not a compliment.
You're not looking for love. You're looking for gifts and outing. If your partner's presence alone does not make your heart swell, love is absent.
You're simply looking for love in places and things, and experiences and whoever can give it to you, you would commit to them. That is not love. Their presence will never light up your heart, you're only excited about what they can do for you.
Again, you're just a Nigerian
Funny how most prostitutes are women, but at home it's magically a man's duty to initiate sex.
When it's unpaid, it's for men. And when it's profitable, it becomes 'women's liberation'