@thatbishElle Sure, this is very true. But as someone related to a few lawyers, the wrong personality (bpd, npd, antisocial, etc... ) with a law degree can be a living nightmare π€£ .... they give the normal ones a bad rap.....
@hilbertspaess Thoughts on the race with China ? Also, if you are this concerned , why not stay so you can observe and keep tabs on how fast it's making progress ?
@thatbishElle Do something crazy π€ͺ...... that's normal. Or something bizarre, like a pen pal. Or a guy doing a life sentence who you can only visit once every six months π€£ ....... I'm joking on that one.....
@thatbishElle Well, lol. I mean you have to start somewhere, Ellie, π€£ .... a friendship that hasn't ended and has survived a few disagreements and arguments without judgment or shame is a good start for how your love life "should " go.
@thatbishElle Do you have any guy friends where it's platonic and you can just talk ? That's where it starts, that's what you need first, you need to bond with someone in a platonic way first , just talking. So you recognize what intimacy without sex is first. Have you had a male therapist?
@thatbishElle Your therapist should be the start of that process , but you need someone you can talk to, I mean really talk to. You don't know what normal is so you have to try something new. Not the same type of people or patterns you are used to.