@AltsQ And I feel ultimately even though we argue and often disagree about parenting- our kids have turned out really well and are more secure bc we have made it through so much together and deep down that is real love (24 years married!)
@AltsQ I agree and have had to give up so much for my marriage- including love - but believe in the long run the sacrifices pay off - we are a unit, a partnership and have to recognise that neither one of us are perfect but that we are each otherโs number one.