a lesson i learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away
Things that I’m grateful in this moment: Giveon voice while sitting at the bar (not overly indulging) but reading some word, catching up on socials, taking moments to breathe, be able to list the simplicity of an off day ✨
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever I want. It means he LISTENS. He PROTECTS. He LEADS. He is HUMBLE. He communicates. He doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. He doesn't makes me feel like I'm hard to love. He is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.