a girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real shit.
@mateiahlouise My mental health came crashing down & so I stopped taking my Adderall (it did help me focus, but it also made me very angry & agitated). And within 3 days I felt GREAT!! I am tired, but I feel so much more clear minded, calm, & patient. It’s insane! I agree with this 1000%
sex is a plus .. but i want to feel beautiful, wanted, loved, and appreciated. i want to be in love freely. i want a mutual understanding that we are on a mission to keep love alive. i want to never go to bed mad. i want conversations, communication. fun unconditional love.
having an emotionally mature partner in a relationship is so important. you’re able to express your feelings openly and freely. they don’t insult you, they don’t dismiss you, they don’t become hostile. they listen, they respond, they patiently hold space for you. top-tier connection.