@spectator@Simmons__ If we're talking disability, SEN or kids in MH crisis - because let's face it that's where this argument is about to go - they've not had adequate education or any support. The Government abandoned them and this is the final nail in the coffin.
@JENBROOK8@stacsuzzyq85 @Fakealexixx @_janey_j@Starlet611 @STARTLOCALTHINK Just last week the SHO (junior doctor) lied to me said my father had seen a urologist (he hadnt); the she lied and said he'd agreed to a DNR. She inky consulted me because my Dad asked and he DID NOT consent. PALS have suggested I file a complaint.
@JENBROOK8@stacsuzzyq85 @Fakealexixx @_janey_j@Starlet611 @STARTLOCALTHINK If you are in UK, that's a very naive response. Last week in hospital I experienced negligence on so many levels. Its only when you are unwell you start to realise just how broken the NHS is.
If I wasn't certain #NHS#Negligence was killing my father, I wouldn't have an issue with the #DNR. Why would they discuss the DNR immediately after I'd raised a #complaint?
@hatetorycuts They're also culling waiting lists in a very unethical manner. My son was removed from one and attempted to be removed from another. Funnily enough, the list we refused to leave he's been waiting 2 years!
@Hazelgrove_5@Anniedroid_ That's exactly what we want for our Dad - assurances he will continue to receive care. Approaching him to agree to DNR after we complained was interesting timing imho.
@simondoyle87@SueJRogerson@livvy_johnson@sophieeejh1@_janey_j@2manypeople4me@dksdata My experience is only SHOs saw my Dad in 7 days despite being told in A&E a specialist must attend. A senior doc only took time to discuss the DNR and that came straight after my complaint re meds bcse the A&E consultant said he must stop and the SHO put him back on.
@SueJRogerson@2manypeople4me @sophiehaywardx @dksdata@_janey_j The doctor specifically told me she would not fill in "the form" after my Dad said he'd misunderstood their conversation and refused DNR.
@em_lou_G@holdthelinekent Absolutely! The only time a senior doctor saw my Dad in hospital was to discuss a DNR - not to discuss the medication that likely put him there
@ConkerLover@_janey_j@capnbobstoaster Actually you're wrong. My Dad - who is waiting for discharge - is exhaused with anemia. He asked me to come to hospital and said I think they're trying to tell me I'm dying, can you speak to them? They said he'd agreed to a DNR and he said he had no recollection of it.
@Maggie77013542 I found it slightly coercive tbh. "He was of sound mind and he agreed. " As if I had convinced him otherwise. That's why I worry they could try to enforce one.
@Maggie77013542 I did. The doctor came. My Dad said he couldn't remember the conversation. She said he'd agreed. He said well I don't any longer. She said she wouldn't fill in the form. Should I trust her?
Also complained the only time a senior doc talked to my Dad was for a DNR.
@pully8@jabberwock951@Shr_Nottingham Ah yes. A physician associate and SHO were apparently adequate to make life changing decisions regarding my Dad. Thank Goodness a lovely consultant secretary explained this to me. Now going private
@Maggie77013542@waynetlc@OlooneyJohn What do you mean? Today they told me my Dad had consented and were preparing the forms. My Dad didn't have a clue what they were talking about. He is ready to be released from hospital.