honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow into their lives.
Society lied to women.
You can’t spend your 20s getting drunk, and having one night stands,
Then demand a 6 pack, 6 figures, 6 inches husband in your 30s.
No man with OPTIONS would pick you, over a feminine woman who is keeping her value.
I have no energy to hate a soul. I seriously have no space in my heart to carry that sh*t around. I either love you, wish you well, or I hope you heal.